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Some thoughts about Organic's arranged marriage post. Arranged or not, you will never truly know someone until you live with them. Love isn't enough to make a marriage work, and that's just it, marriage is work. Arranged or not, you will still have to cook every day for the rest of your life. Blah!

Marriage will always be scary. Especially if the first time around wasn't all that great. Who would want to get married again? How can you feel safe, certainly an arranged marriage would look even more frightening in that light. You wouldn't know the person and you would have to trust Allah with it. How is that easy when you hardly trust anyone.

I'm afraid to get married. He isn't making it any better for me right now either. I can't even imagine it being arranged.